by lucy-cavendish-counselling | May 18, 2017 | Uncategorised
It was two years ago that I started to go to therapy. I’d dabbled in it before. Over a decade ago I’d seen a man who’d try to rebirth me through a vast knitted womb. I’d also sat in a village hall with a strange woman wearing a beret who smelled of cabbage soup....
by lucy-cavendish-counselling | May 13, 2017 | Uncategorised
Ann-Marlene Henning is a Danish neuro-psychologist living in Hamburg. She is a sexologist, TV personality, counsellor relationship specialist. She writes blogs, has her own channel on You Tube. She is well-known in her field. But she is about to become known for...
by lucy-cavendish-counselling | May 6, 2017 | Uncategorised
I have three boys Raymond 20, Leonard 14 and Jerry 13. I love them all totally and absolutely. And yet, ever since I became pregnant, all I ever thought I’d have was a baby girl. I’d always seen myself having a girl. Yet instead of doing ‘girly’ things – reading,...
by lucy-cavendish-counselling | Apr 27, 2017 | Uncategorised
It was when I was on my training as a Couples Counsellor that I had the revelation – we don’t, as therapists, like to talk about sex. This came to me when, in session number four, our tutor told us we were going to focus on how important – on possibly unimportant...
by lucy-cavendish-counselling | Apr 27, 2017 | Uncategorised
As a child, I didn’t know my father was an alcoholic. Like most families, the true nature of what was going on was hidden. So, although I had an idyllic time on the surface camping in the woods and swimming in the river, there was always a menacing undercurrent of...
